Married Life

I feel like I have to put a disclaimer on this entry so here it is; I'm not married. I'm just speaking from the outside looking in and from what my idea of what marriage should be. So many times you see people get married at a young age and soon after they get divorced. Me, personally, I just think that's a very bold move to make. At the time, couples don't think they or it will end in divorce but things change. We all think we have a good idea of what makes us happy until our world gets turned upside down. People fall in love with their complete opposite, someone bad for them, so on and so on. Anytime you have to question why you're in a relationship, it's probably time to get out. Older people look at us successful bachelors and bachelorettes and wonder why we're still single. I'm taking my time. I don't want to regret the decision years down the road. You have family and friends come together for this glorious occasion and then years later a divorce comes. It's big letdown and money wasted. But then again, we can't predict the future. That's why I play everything by ear now. No need to jump into anything so fast. People who are really looking out for you will always tell you to wait and make sure it's right. That's why I'm married to me before anybody else. I have to figure out who I am and accept that before even thinking of marriage. That's not to say I haven't ran into some potential wives because I have. But I don't want to make a mistake. I do hope for the best for those who are married. Here's to the married life!!!